If I’m So Wise, Why Am I Still Confused?
Why is it easier to give advice to other people and still be very confused about our own situations? Seems counter intuitive, because we have more context over our own lives, so we should be able to arrive at perfect advice for ourselves. But things are often not that clear. There are several reason for this I think, where biggest one being our own biases. Our emotions are deeply intertwined with our personal situations. This makes it hard to be objective. Fear, anxiety, self-doubt, or even wishful thinking can cloud our judgment and lead us down paths that aren't truly…